Saying NO Makes You HOT

Written By Phoenix Coaching
set boundaries in a relationship

Setting boundaries is the KEY to a healthy and thriving relationship!

Becoming Badass Podcast Ep #23

In this episode, I show you how to:

  • Be a Boundary Babe by setting healthy boundaries in your relationship

  • The pure MAGIC of boundaries that no one tells you….hint it shows you EXACTLY who a man is

  • How to step up for yourself so that a man ALWAYS values you

  • How to put yourself first AND get love and cherishing from him

  • Know the signs your body gives when it’s good to say “yes” and when you need to say “no”

Did you know that setting boundaries makes you more attractive?

When you set boundaries in a relationship, it signals to him that you are a High-Value woman!! And how he sees you is EVERYTHING.

In a man’s eyes, you are either his “Forever Girl” or “For Now Girl.” You can’t be both!!

By you saying “no,” it tells him that you are not a “yes girl,” you have your own mind and you respect and value yourself, and if he wants to be a part of your life, he’s gonna have to value and respect you too!!

So no matter if you’ve been married for 10 years, you’re in a committed relationship, or you're single and looking for your Forever Guy, boundaries are crucial for maintaining healthy relationships. They protect your mental, emotional, and physical well-being, allowing you to protect your time, energy, and physical (your body, money car, house, etc.) and emotional (energy, time, care, etc) resources.

Without boundaries, you’ll lose yourself and be unable to advocate for your needs, wants, preferences, and non-negotiables. Simply put, without boundaries, YOU DON’T HAVE A VOICE!!

Saying no to what you don’t want and yes to what you want is KEY for a happy and healthy relationship

Saying No is self-worth.

is self-love.

is self-value.

is self-respect.

At first, this is definitely scary! Your man could get upset, angry, and distance himself, but this is ESSENTIAL to create a mutually satisfying, fulfilling, and thriving relationship!

Either he will step up and value you the way you value yourself, after giving him time to get his shit together, or a Badass Babe, no matter how much it hurts, will walk away.

She loves him deeply and with all of her heart, but she is no longer willing to shut down her voice, keep pretending to be happy, and suffer in silence for the “sake of the relationship.”

HER comfort matters.

HER happiness matters.

She’s allowed to take up real space and SHINE.

She knows that she can bounce if he can’t treat her like the queen she it.

She also knows (or is learning) that her own self-value needs to be more than she values her man or her relationship.

She’s the main character of her life….not her man! That’s who a Badass Babe is!

She has her own life! Her values. Her hobbies and interests … outside of him.

A good, healthy man respects boundaries and wants to truly please you and make you happy!

The more you speak up for what you want, need, and prefer, the more he can give to you.

Hint - this is one way that he falls head over heels for you! By investing in you and what makes you happy!

And If you’re yes isn’t a “hell yes,” then it’s a “Hell no.”

Ready to become the boundary babe you were meant to be? Let’s chat.

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