Be a Lion, NOT a Lamb
Time to step into the most Badass version of yourself. Embrace your inner Lioness!!
Becoming Badass Podcast Ep #24
In this episode, I show you how to:
How you’ve been trained to be a lamb and how to break free to be a LION to be the badass woman that you are!!
What does being a Lion look like
how this showed up being a mom
instead of being nice….be THIS instead
How will this affect your relationship and
Why being your REAL self is 100% needed in your relationship to get that amazing emotional connection that we are all looking for!
How do you become a lion instead of a lamb?
In your love life, what this is gonna do is it's going to make you magnetic to the right, high-quality men. If you're already in a relationship, yes, it may cause waves. How I look at this as if we are not growing, we are stagnant, then our relationship is moving backward.
So if we aren't moving forward, then we are moving backwards. And what better way to just reinvigorate some life into your relationship by starting to speak up. And a good man isn't going to want you to hold in your feelings until you explode. That's what happens to me. And I see a lot of us, we just hold it in, hold it in, and we explode or we get depressed.
He doesn't want that. He wants to know what you truly think, what you truly feel.
Men love feeling, but they don’t love drama. As you start to express yourself and your feelings by saying: “This is what's important to me. This is what I value. This is what matters to me.”
When you're showing up as a lion, you feel worthy from the inside out. You can speak your mind, you can feel your emotions, and you can speak your truth. You're not merely a yes girl. You have a mind of your own. And you know what you want and you know what you need and you are not going to settle for anything less.
Being a lamb is simply saying, okay, to whatever you get, and trying to be happy for something that you don't really want. You just take whatever you can get, and then we try to be happy with it, don't we? But it just doesn't work. So we're unhappy, but we're plastering a smile on our face and being quiet and shrinking ourselves and staying small, because that's what we're taught to do.
Because shining and standing out means that you are not gonna fit in, and not fitting in feels very dangerous….. emotionally. You may feel like something bad is truly going to happen. It's not in this day and age, but women still carry that within us, the fear that if we speak, we will be cast out and unable to survive on our own. We needed a man to protect and provide for us to survive. (These are just facts. No "‘man-hating” here. I love men!)
Times are different now….we no longer have to be nice to men or people in authority just to survive.
A lion(ess) knows her value. She feels worthy from the inside out. She's not afraid to speak her mind and say her truth. She feels her emotions. She knows who she is and what she wants. She owns her needs.
This is showing up as the high-value woman you truly are, and that will attract high-quality men.
For women, we are taught to please others first and put ourselves last. Be selfless, be compliant, accommodating, and reasonable.
Don't upset others. Don't rock the boat. Don't be too loud. Right? You've probably heard this directly or indirectly….like given dirty looks where you acted “unacceptable”) And it has just become the way we show up, and we don't even realize we're doing this. It's just become part of who we are, and we have to unlearn it to be that lion. My definition of the lion is to simply be you.
Unleash the Badass Woman that you already are beneath all the shoulds, need to’s, have to’s, ought to’s! Break FREE from who you’ve been told to be to embrace your amazing, badass self!
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