Meet Phoenix

I’ve been there…

I went from crumb taker to badass babe! That’s me.

I’m a smart, strong, high achiever who’s overcome perfectionism and being a “good girl.”

I looked strong on the outside, but on the inside, I was terrified of making a mistake. I had to do it “right” or I was wrong.

I had to be “on” all the time, and it was just f’en exhausting!!

I habitually put others before myself, never rocked the boat, or spoke up…. I was scared of upsetting others. If I did, I felt dread, “What if I was wrong?”

I thought that being loved was the answer to everything….

I worked so damn hard in my relationship ….but no matter how hard I worked, or did things the “right way,” I never felt seen, heard, or loved.

Being successful in love and relationships… felt impossible!!!

It turned out that I was with a manipulative, Narcissistic guy for almost 10 years.

I poured all of my love and care into our one-sided relationship, always accommodating, being compliant, and putting him first…hoping that if I gave my all, he would step up.

In hindsight, I was making some HUGE mistakes …which made everything worse! I’m going to share them with you BELOW so that you don’t make the same mistakes I did!

LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES SO THAT YOU CAN HAVE THE THRIVING RELATIONSHIP YOU DESERVE!

EVERYTHING CHANGED….I decided one day that I was never going to chase after anyone again!! Walking away from the man who I thought was “my person” was one of the most painful, agonizing, and defining moments of my life….

I chose myself while facing all of my fears. I focused on healing myself and developing rock-solid inner security, self-worth, and self-trust.

No longer am I a slave to being “good,” or perfect.

Now I can just be the REAL me! I embody the worthiness and deservedness that we all have within us and help my clients do the same.

I’m no longer the woman who would EVER chase after a man, tolerate crumbs, or poor behavior! And you don't have to either!