About me

I’ve been there…

I’m a recovered nice girl, people-pleaser, and perfectionist….

always being “good,” putting others before myself, never rocking the boat, or speaking up.

I thought that being loved and married would fill up the emptiness and loneliness inside of me.

Well, I was wrong.

I worked so damn hard for love and attention ….but no matter how hard I worked, or did things the “right way,” I never felt seen, heard, secure, or loved.

It turned out that I was with a manipulative, Hot and Cold, Narcissistic guy for almost 10 years.

I poured all of my love and care into our one-sided relationship, always accommodating, being compliant, and putting him first…hoping that if I gave my all, he would step up.

But all he gave was crumbs! I was stuck in a cycle of chasing after him for love and attention and then when I was ready to let go, he would suddenly show up and “act right.”

He was so afraid and insecure that it didn’t matter how much I loved him and our family, he just wasn’t capable of seeing me or giving me the healthy love I desired. Walking away from the man who I thought was “my person,” was one of the most painful, agonizing, and defining moments of my life….

I healed from our relationship and chose myself for the first time, moving toward my desires meant facing all of my fears.

It wasn’t until I learned this secret to having an amazing, secure relationship and loving myself, flaws and all, that everything changed!!

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    Coach Phoenix