Meet Phoenix

I’ve been there…

I’m a smart, strong, successful woman who’s overcome perfectionism and being a good girl who’s “too nice.”

I habitually used to put others before myself, and never rocked the boat, or spoke up. I often felt resentful and angry because I wasn’t getting what I wanted no matter how hard I worked for it.

I thought that being loved was the answer….

I worked so damn much for love and attention ….but no matter how hard I worked, or did things the “right way,” I never felt seen, heard, or loved.

Being successful in Love and relationships… felt impossible!!!

It turned out that I was with a manipulative, Narcissistic guy for almost 10 years.

I poured all of my love and care into our one-sided relationship, always accommodating, being compliant, and putting him first…hoping that if I gave my all, he would step up.

In hindsight, I was making some HUGE mistakes …which made everything worse! I’m going to share them with you BELOW so that you don’t make the same mistakes I did!

LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES SO THAT YOU CAN HAVE THE THRIVING RELATIONSHIP YOU DESEREVE!

I decided one day that I was never going to chase after anyone again!! Walking away from the man who I thought was “my person,” was one of the most painful, agonizing, and defining moments of my life….

I chose myself for the first time while facing all of my fears. I focused on healing myself, and developing rock-solid inner security, self-worth, and trust in myself!

I’m no longer the woman who would EVER chase after a man, tolerate crumbs, or poor behavior! And you don't have to either!