Create a love that feels like home
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"I was seeking out a professional to help me navigate my way out of an unhealthy relationship and family, when I saw Phoenix’s videos online. Almost every video resonated with the real life experiences I’ve gone through.
When we connected, she was beyond generous and empathetic. With her coaching, she gifted me the insight and strength I desperately needed. She’s so approachable that what could have been an uncomfortable conversation turned into a fluid, effortless purge of topics I wanted to discuss for years, yet couldn’t with others.
I greatly appreciate Phoenix’s ability to connect on a personal level as well, as she shared her own vulnerable experiences, which made me feel much less isolated in mine. She truly is an earth angel with years of insight and experience she uses to help others."
Leila H.
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"Coach Phoenix has been an amazing coach!
I've only been seeing her for four weeks and already I'm experiencing a difference in my daily interactions, day-to-day life, and relationship.
In 6 months, she had helped me navigate difficult challenges with my controlling family, handle a manipulative boyfriend, choose whether to stay or go, and lovingly supported and guided me through every step!
She helped me see that my boyfriend couldn’t and wouldn’t change and to believe in the real, loving relationship that I deserved.
She has the best tools and books that helped me understand and sort through my feelings. She has made me realize I don't have to live miserable anymore! She's proved that healing IS possible."
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"When I was at one of the lowest points in my life, Phoenix showed up like a force of nature. She didn’t just cheer me on from the sidelines — she got in the trenches with me. She’s the kind of coach who gives you the hard truth you need to hear — but wraps it in so much real love that you actually feel stronger after hearing it.
Every conversation with her feels like a hand reaching out to pull you back to yourself. I never felt judged or embarrassed — only seen, supported, and safe to be exactly where I was.
She doesn’t just give advice — she gives you clear steps, real support, and the kind of steady presence that makes you believe you can get through anything. She shows up. She checks in. She actually cares. And you feel it—not just in her words, but in the way she never lets you stay stuck in the dark alone.
Underneath her fire is an overflowing well of love. She’s your biggest cheerleader — fierce, loyal, and deeply invested in your growth. When she believes in you, it’s impossible not to start believing in yourself.
If you’re looking for someone to lead you through the hard seasons with realness, love, and unwavering strength, Coach Phoenix is it. You’ll feel seen, you’ll feel led, and you’ll walk away stronger than you ever thought possible."
Victoria R.
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“I was struggling with my inner critic, massive anxiety, and lots of anger. I went from relationship to relationship and when things got hard, I would just leave. I didn’t know what I was doing wrong.
I was so scared of conflict and would shut down easily or lose my temper. I had no idea how to handle problems in my relationship, take responsibility, and this caused so much unnecessary pain and drama.
After a few months of coaching, I've learned how to control my feelings, deal with conflict in a healthy way, and speak up.
I’ve completely changed for the better because of her help! Now I think things through, and no longer let my feelings control me.
She literally took a broken, dysfunctional, unreliable person and turned me into a healthy, happy, functional, and reliable man.
My life has been completely changed. I cannot thank her enough! Words just don't express my true gratitude."
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“My marriage was at an impasse due to my partner’s insecurity and control issues. I didn't know how to get through to my husband, but I knew something had to change.
After Phoenix's coaching, I felt validated, understood, and heard! She helped me identify my boundaries and communicate with him in a healthy way.
I learned that I shouldn’t feel bad for getting upset and to communicate my feelings instead of stuffing them until I explode.
Now my husband is getting help and we are healing together! I have no doubt that her guidance saved my marriage!!
I feel hopeful about our future and blessed to finally have real guidance and answers!”
Casey H.
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“When I came to Phoenix for coaching, I was putting everyone else first because I didn’t want to upset others or have conflict. I was exhausted and had no energy! And I didn’t know how to say no or hold my boundaries.
After getting coaching, I'm now valuing how I feel, standing up for myself in my relationships (which I didn’t know how to do before), and Im feeling way more confident!
Coaching with Phoenix just felt so easy, supportive, and caring. I'm so happy I chose her as my coach. I highly recommend her!”
Beth S.
Become the woman you were always meant to be
Become the woman you were always meant to be
Your Relationship and Feminine Energy Coach
For the woman who’s done struggling, chasing, or working hard for love—who’s ready to have a soul-deep and passionate partnership.
No matter if you’re married, in a long-term relationship, going through a break-up, or anything in between, I can help you.
Maybe you’re...
Struggling in your marriage and want to learn if how to make it flourish and feel alive again
Don’t know if you should stay or go
Healing from a breakup or situationship that left you questioning your worth—and wondering if real love is even possible for you
The one who always gives more in relationships, cares too much, and yet still ends up feeling unseen, unchosen, and never quite enough
Constantly trying to keep the connection alive—while feeling anxious, burnt out, and more disconnected than ever
Drawn to men who say all the right things... but never truly show up
Walking on eggshells, silencing your needs, and trying not to be “too much” just to keep the peace
Losing yourself in love—pleasing, shrinking, and performing just to feel wanted
💔 Deep down, you know love shouldn't feel like a guessing game—or one-sided.
If love has felt hard or confusing, it’s not your fault. It’s a sign you’ve been cut off from your feminine energy, doing everything the “hard way.”
Learn how to feel radiant, powerful, deeply loved and have your man devoted only to you…heart, mind, body, and soul!
Why work with me?
I was in a long-term relationhip for almost 10 years and I inspired him to step up.
He went from stonewalling and distancing himself to wanting to please, protect, and pursue me!
He was an avoidant who was very hot and cold so this was HUGE.
I had to assess if I should stay or go with 2 kids.
I went through a devestating break-up, completely healed, and am now over my ex. (He still wants me back)
I rebuilt my self worth from the ground up.
I healed my fearful avoidant attachment.
I went from anxious, second-guessing myself, zero self-trust, shut down emotionally, overgiving, overfunctioing, to feel damn good in my skin, speak up with confidence, feel secure in myself, and embody my priceless worth to my core.
Learned all the secrets to attract and cultivate a secure, healthy, thriving relationship.
Oh and I am a trained therapist.
Let’s help you improve your relationship to get the love cherishing you deeply deserve!
Or attract the soul-connected partnership that feels calm, safe, and deeply nourishing.
This isn’t another “get him back” strategy.
This is a deeply transformational process that will make you so magnetic and radiant that your man (or the men you’re seeing) will want to please, pursue, protect, and commit only you!
✨ Inside Private Coaching, You’ll Learn How To:
Become so magnetic and irresistible that your man can’t get enough of you
Become a High Value Woman who speaks up for her boundaries, needs, and wants, with ease and confidence
Revive your marriage or long term relationship and create a deeply fulfilling, close, connected love like you used to have
Heal the patterns that have of doing everything, giving too much, and/or staying quiet and holding your anger in until you blow up
Never feel “too much” again with Him
Stop people-pleasing, overgiving, or shrinking just to feel “good enough”
Rebuild yourself after ghosting, betrayal, or a break up
If you’re ready to get the Love and Adoration that you deserve - Book a Coaching Session below.
What Actually Changes When You Do This Work:
You feel so damn good in your skin
You stop chasing, begging, waiting, and reminding him about your needs……instead he shows up wanting to please you!
You stop second-guessing yourself and trust your intuition in love
You speak your truth without fearing rejection or being “too much”
You no longer chase love—you attract it by being fully, unapologetically you
You set boundaries calmly and confidently
You stop settling for crumbs—because now you know your worth
You naturally choose partners who show up, give back, and make you feel safe and adored
What’s Included:
Weekly 1:1 Coaching Calls
Personalized guidance tailored to your love patterns, triggers, and goals
Voice or email support between sessions
Worksheets, tools, and emotional healing practices rooted in attachment repair and nervous system work
Access to private trainings released during your time in the program
This is for you if:
You want to get the fire back in your marriage or relationship without working harder!
You’re ready to finally stop chasing and start choosing yourself
You want to feel magnetic and amazing in your own skin
You want real love where you feel safe to stop shrinking and losing yourself
You want a relationship that feels calm, deeply-connected, and emotionally secure
You’re done replaying the same painful love story—and ready to write a new one
You’re open to deep healing and real accountability with support
This isn’t for you if:
You’re looking for a quick fix or surface-level advice
You’re not open to self-reflection or emotional growth
You’re still focused on proving your worth through someone else’s love
Ready to feel to feel adored, cherished, and deeply loved?
Book your Private Coaching Session to uncover what’s been keeping you stuck—and map out a path to the healthy, soul-connected relationship you deserve.
I open just a handful of spots each week for these powerful 1:1 sessions. This is your chance to get clarity on the exact steps to start creating the secure, lasting love you deserve.
Choose a time that works for you below — spots fill quickly, so grab yours while they’re available!
✨ If you dont see a time below that works or you’d like to have a quick, relaxed chat with me first before you sign up— send me a quick text right here.
Chanelle’s Transformation
She went from feeling depleted, confused, and questioning her worth in a one-sided relationship… to feeling confident, clear, and empowered to speak her needs and set boundaries without guilt!