Have the Healthy, Loving Relationship You’ve Always Wanted.

Why Does Love Feel Harder Than It Should — When You’re Doing Everything Right?

You’re smart. You’re strong. You’re successful.
You can handle anything life throws at you…

So why are you always the one carrying the relationship?

This 60-second quiz reveals the hidden pattern that pulls capable, high-achieving women into over-giving, over-thinking, and feeling unseen in love…

So you can finally feel supported, chosen, and cherished — instead of doing it all yourself.

👉 Click Here To Find Out Why


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I know what it’s like to chase love with everything I had — only to end up feeling unseen, unappreciated, and never quite enough.

On the outside, I looked strong, successful, and self-aware.
But in love?
I abandoned myself.
I silenced my needs.
I held the relationship together alone while convincing myself crumbs were “good enough” just to feel chosen.

I thought if I could be perfect, low-maintenance, or easy to love…
’d finally get the connection I longed for.

Instead, it left me anxious, overgiving, and questioning my worth — until I didn’t even recognize myself anymore.

One day, I saw the truth:
All my effort, all my devotion, all my sacrificing… had left me drained, lonely, and invisible in my own relationship.

Walking away from that emotionally unavailable dynamic changed everything.

I learned how to detach with love, rebuild my self-worth from the inside out, and reconnect with the feminine, grounded, deeply deserving part of me I had abandoned.

I stopped chasing.
I stopped performing.
I stopped shrinking myself to be loved.

And for the first time, I felt chosen, safe, and truly seen.

Now I help strong, successful women do the same — to come home to themselves, break the patterns that keep them doing it all, giving everything, and feeling unseen in their relationships, and create healthy, connected love without losing who they are.

Because you deserve a relationship where you feel secure, chosen, and fully yourself.

💫 Take my 60-second quiz to uncover the hidden pattern keeping you unseen or unfulfilled in love — and learn the first steps to creating the deeply connected, lasting love you’re meant for.

👉 Reveal My Pattern — and How to Fix It.

I know what it’s like…”

Beth S.

“When I came to Phoenix for coaching, I was putting everyone else first because I didn’t want to upset others or have conflict. I was exhausted and had no energy! And I didn’t know how to say no or hold my boundaries.

After getting coaching, I'm now valuing how I feel, standing up for myself in my relationships (which I didn’t know how to do before), and Im feeling way more confident!

Coaching with Phoenix just felt so easy, supportive, and caring. I'm so happy I chose her as my coach. I highly recommend her!”

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YOU DESERVE A MAN WHO WILL MOVE MOUNTAINS TO BE WITH YOU.

Do you feel unseen, disconnected, or like you’re sharing a life with someone… yet still feeling alone?

I can help you.
You’re not here to survive on crumbs or settle for halfway love.
You’re here for connection that feels safe, secure, deeply intimate — the kind of love that feels like home.

You’ve done the work.
You’re smart, self-aware, emotionally intuitive.
So why does love still feel like a cycle of overthinking, chasing, guessing, or settling for men who can’t meet you?

If you’re done attracting low-effort, emotionally unavailable, or inconsistent partners —
and you’re ready for a relationship where you feel fully seen, supported, and deeply chosen —
you’re exactly where you need to be.

I help powerful, heart-led women like you heal the hidden patterns that make love feel one-sided, lonely, or never quite enough.

This isn’t about fixing yourself.
It’s about coming home to your worth, your softness, your truth — without overgiving, overfunctioning, or losing yourself just to feel loved.

✨ You don’t have to chase love anymore.
You get to receive it.
You get to choose it.
You get to attract it — without shrinking or performing.

Because the love you want isn’t a fantasy.
It’s real.
It’s possible.
And you’re closer to it than you think.

Click below to start creating the reciprocal, healthy, emotionally connected partnership you deserve.

👉 Reveal My Pattern — And Learn How to Shift It

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